What Is Personal Leadership? 02/02/2012
The sort of feelings and experiences I described are also signs that you're off track and not honouring yourself in an empowering way. Time to get back to what it means to be you, and to take charge as the leader of your life, business, career and go out and grab your vision and squeeze it so tight it just melts into you as a divine reality Personal leadership is, as you may think from it's name, a very personal experience. My expression of personal leadership will be different to your expression as will the outcomes for both of us. That is, I think, part of what makes personal leadership so empowering I'll be back soon with more on this fascinating topic so until next time I wish you succulent, effortless success Shannon Add Comment
_ Instead what I hope to do is to help you get clear on why you have held back in pursuing your dreams till now, or why you've thought more about giving up than breaking through. I hope to highlight, loud and clear, why this is the best time for you to empower your visions, transform your life and create the masterpiece the world is waiting for - you!
Let's just dive in...... Back in December I hosted free training Webinar called Seal Your Success in 2012. It was so popular that there was a repeat performance last week and hundreds of people signed up to hear me share key strategies that will, if you implement them, set you up to make 2012 your best year yet (if you missed it you can view the replay here) Now during Seal Your Success I revealed a really powerful reflection that I want to ask you now. After i've asked the question I'd love you to start writing your answer right away, without pausing, without hesitation, trusting in what is flowing forth from you, knowing that your inner leader is guiding you here Ok here it is...... Innovation Challenge 13: Destination Success 01/19/2012
Innovation Challenge 9: 12 Ways To Be More Innovative In Your Effort To Be Effortlessly Successful 01/10/2012
It's now the second week of the new year. I don't know about you but I have certainly had some big personal challenges that have really tested me and bought up some of the 'stuff' that has the potential to get in the way of me being my best self. I had thought that 2012 would be a big year and one that asked me to stretch and grow in a whole new way but I didn't expect that it'd start immediately and have a less than fantastic affect on me
Why does this 'stuff' affect me? Well quite simply because I let it. You see I am exactly like you. When I am tired, overwhelmed, feeling frustrated, challenged physically or emotionally or intellectually then the first thing that happens is that those old things called fears pop up and fear is not helpful, other than to alert me to the fact that I need to take better care of myself and get back on track. Fear is a sign that I am not empowered with my usual resilience. It is a sign that I am shifting, changing, growing. It alerts me to the need to ask for support, and allow myself to receive it and much much more. Most of all though I see fear as a gift because it gives me an opportunity to reconnect with the potential in being me! Yes, fear is a gift.... “Success seems to be connected with action. Successful people keep moving. They make mistakes, but they don't quit” Conrad Hilton There is an interesting phenomenon, if you like, that exists amongst people. When it comes to getting what we want we take one of two approaches. We either move away from or towards things in our lives - our goals, visions, dreams, relationships, feelings, opportunities.... and the list goes on Can you think right now of one thing you move away from - it might be something you move away from all the time. Now, think of something you move towards. How do you feel when you're in the move towards place? Moving towards is what I like to call an expansive action. It's something that makes you feel open, alive, encouraged, very enthusiastic, motivated, excited, free. It's uplifting and inspiring In contrast moving away from is more of a contracting action. It can make you feel challenged, feaarful, uncomfortable, disconnected, reactionary, slow, depleated. It zaps your energy and can leave you feeling far from your best self "All too often people fail to focus their choices upon results and therefore their choices are ineffective. If you limit your choices only to what seems possible or reasonable, you disconnect yourself from what you truly want, and all that is left is a compromise" ~ Robert Fritz Do you get the feeling that it is time for you to soar? I do! I know it is for me and it feels like this year it is for all of us with great inspiring exciting visions for sharing our gifts with the world in whatever way we are called to do so
How though, do you soar? What does it take to 'take off' and fly with uplifting, sustained momentum? It takes you to make new choices. Bolder choices. Daring choices. It takes you to get outside of your comfort zone. It requires you to stretch. To bend yourself in a new way I want to remind you that if you are not happy with your present situation then you need to do something different to change the outcome. Remember Einstein said the definition of insanity is to do the same thing over and over and expect a different outcome. How true that is The start of your Innovation Challenge for today is to take some time to reflect on and answer these questions: When did you last 1. Stretch yourself? 2. Take a bend to shift to a new viewpoint or thought? 3. Step outside your comfort zone to see what's 'lurking' out there in the big wide world beyond the limits you have placed on your possibility and potential? "All that is necessary to break the spell of inertia and frustration is this: Act as if it were impossible to fail. That is the talisman, the formula, the command of right-about-face which turns us from failure towards success" ~ Dorothea Brande I've had an intersting few weeks with lots of changes happening in my world which have led to a big challenge when it comes to focusing and belief. The blessing in all this was that I found the quote above and it really inspired me and delivered a big dose of nurturing hope for this new year and beyond. I was also reminded of the little bit of wisdom I love from Audrey Hepburn who said "Nothing is Impossible, the word itself says, I'm Possible"
Over the past few months I've written a lot about effortless success. It's a great vision of mine, to see others experience their version of success with great ease and joy and to see that success become something significant, sustained and effortless. I feel great sadness when I see and hear others struggling and I am committed to doing what I can, by sharing my knowledge, experience and wisdom as far and wide as possible to teach others the tools and strategies I've learnt and developed over a significant period of time so that effortless success can be something real for more and more people every day At this time of year there are so many things happening around us, in our external world. We have lots of social events to attend, friends and family to see, shopping to do, things to prepare, activity all around us. There is also a lot happening for us internally, whether you realise it it not. Quite often we are not consciously aware of how much time we invest in reflecting, looking inward, wondering how things could be different, better, easier, free-er.... This is therefore a powerful time to deeply reflect inward on the year that's been. Within that reflection space is an opportunity to review your goals and intentions for the past year and to evaluate how well you succeeded in achieving them. Wether this is something you do formally or something informal, it's not uncommon to be left feeling less than satisfied about your achievements I think we are too quick to focus on what we haven't achieved rather than celebrating what we have succeeded with and in, no matter how big or small those successes are. A wise mentor of mine always says "big or small, we celebrate them all" when it comes to reflecting on our personal successes and accomplishments which is such a richly rewarding way to exist Right now I'd like you to check in and ask yourself the following 9 Power Questions. They are designed to go deep into reflection on what the past year has been and to open you to begin thinking about what you'd need for next year and beyond to shimmer with effortless success 1. How are you feeling right now as you reflect back on the past year? 2. How has 2011 been for you, truthfully? 3. Was it all you wished for and better than you could have hoped? 4. Whats one significant goal you were certain you'd achieve that you didn't? 5. If you didn't achieve at the rate you'd hoped to then how do you feel about that? (flat, disappointed, frustrated, tired, poor and overwhelmed are the most common responses I hear from people unsatisfied with their performance at this time if year) 6. Are you now vowing that next year will not be a repeat of this past year? 7. What steps are you going to out into place to ensure that 2012 is not a repeat of 2011? 8. Did you ask for help in 2011? Stretch yourself? Learn new skills? Shift limiting beliefs that were holding you back and replace self sabotaging behaviors with supportive, forward momentum actions? 9. What sort of support are you willing to invest in to ensure that 2012 is your best year yet? How did you go? Were you surprised about the responses you got? Were you truly honest with yourself as you answered each questions? (more questions I know, sorry, but they need to be asked!) Because so many people let themselves get into a situation this time of year where they start to feel less than satisfied (this is where that unhelpful often negative self talk kicks in and makes us feel quite frankly like we're just not good enkugh) even though they shouldn't, I've decided to hold a complimentary training webinar next week to share with you the secrets to sealing your success in 2012 so that everything about you and you're life shimmer and shine and you can really thrive not just survive! You can find out more and register for this event here I can't wait to share the empowering content with you and help you on your way to an awesome new year next year and every year after! The extra good news is that the strategy and steps I'm going to share are far easier than you might think. Remember, my intention for you is effortless success from this point forward Register for the training Webinar and I'll see you there | CategoriesAll ArchivesFebruary 2012 |

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